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Community Questions - Preparing your child for a sibling.

"Can you please share any advice for preparing my older child for their sibling? I'm due in a few months and a bit worried how my older child will react!"


Welcoming a new addition to the family is an exciting time, but it can also bring a mix of emotions for your older child. Introducing a new sibling requires thoughtful preparation to ensure a smooth transition and foster strong sibling bonds. As parents, you play a vital role in helping your older child adjust to the changes and embrace the new family dynamics with love and understanding.Here we provide strategies to prepare your older child emotionally, encourage sibling bonding, and navigate potential feelings of jealousy or adjustment issues. These are strategies that have worked for us, remember that every child is different so do what you feel is best for your child.


1. Open and Honest Communication

Communication is the key to preparing your older child for the arrival of their new sibling. Engage in age-appropriate conversations, explaining that a new baby will soon be joining the family. Answer any questions your child may have and address any concerns they express. Reassure them of your love and attention, even with the arrival of the new baby.

2. Involve Your Child in Preparations

Including your older child in the preparations for the new baby can create a sense of excitement and involvement. Allow them to help choose baby items, decorate the nursery, and pick out baby clothes. This involvement will make them feel valued and connected to the upcoming changes.


3. Share Positive Sibling Stories

Share positive stories and experiences about having a sibling to help your child understand the joy of having a brother or sister. Talk about the special bond they will share and the fun they can have together as they grow up.

4. Read Books About Siblings

Reading age-appropriate books about becoming a sibling can be an excellent way to introduce the idea to your child. Look for books that explore the emotions of older siblings, the role of a big brother or sister, and the joy of having a new baby in the family.

5. Spend Quality Time Together

Prioritise one-on-one time with your older child to spend quality time together. Engage in activities they enjoy and make them feel special during this period of change. This quality time will reassure them of your love and attention.

6. Involve Them in Baby Care

Once the baby arrives, involve your older child in age-appropriate baby care tasks. They can help with simple tasks such as fetching nappies and wipes, singing lullabies, or rocking the baby gently. This involvement will foster a sense of responsibility and ownership in their new role as a big brother or sister.

7. Monitor and Address Jealousy

Jealousy is a natural emotion when a new sibling arrives. Be attentive to signs of jealousy in your older child and address their feelings with empathy and understanding. Reassure them that their feelings are valid and provide extra love and attention during this time.


Preparing your older child for a new sibling is an essential part of ensuring a smooth family transition. By communicating openly, involving your child in preparations, and nurturing their emotions, you can lay the foundation for a strong and loving sibling bond. Remember, each child's adjustment process is unique, so be patient and provide support as they navigate this exciting new chapter in their lives.

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